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Oh, Papi – Single Daddy Dating Tips

Going through a divorce or separation makes it seem as if you never want to date again. Fool me once, shame on me but fool me twice. Well, we all know how that proverb ends. Plus, you have custody of the children and it’s your job to keep them safe and warm and happy and well fed. Their needs come first.

Still, a man is a man and finding a woman to spend time with will always be on the agenda. The only problem is navigating the dating scene because things have changed since your last foray into singledom.

Read on to find out how to strike the perfect balance.

Single Daddy Dating Tips – Take Baby Steps

It’s been a while since you went on a romantic date with any other than your ex, so there’s no need to rush into anything. That goes for meeting up in the first place. Figuring out how to deal with dating apps can be tricky enough and take up most of your time. Getting ready to go on a remote date might feel almost impossible then. Some guys don’t even start with potential love interests. Instead, they use free 60-minute chat line numbers to talk to women, improve their skills and gain their confidence back. Remember that Bumble and Tinder have “friend” sections if that’s all you want in the beginning.

Keep It Close

No one is saying you have to lie or keep it a secret, but you’re probably not going to enjoy broadcasting it to the whole world. It’s fun in the beginning yet the constant questions after the fact makes it tricky. In lots of ways, it puts undue pressure on the relationship and makes you stressed. By all means, organize a date and get back out into the world, but think about who to tell and how much to divulge.

Single Daddy Dating Tips – Inform The Kids

You and your children have been through a lot, from a divorce to a custody battle, so they deserve to know the truth. After all, it’s difficult to keep it from them when you suddenly start going out “to meet friends” on a weekday night. They might be young but they even can tell the cologne you’re wearing isn’t for a softball buddy. Also, it’s important that they give their consent or else you can feel as if you’re betraying them in some way. Tell them it’s time to be an adult but make sure they know it’s only casual and there won’t be a new woman in the house any time soon.

Find The Right Woman

Usually, it’s the ladies that have to sort through the boys to find the men. This time, the shoe is on the other foot because your life is set out. Therefore, you need someone to compliment it and come in and try and change things. A date should be casual yet up for getting serious should it go well. She needs to be okay with kids and understand they always come first.

Otherwise, the drinks might go well but they’ll still be a waste of your time.

What additional re-dating advice would you give?

Contributed post. Feature image via Flickr.

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Fred Campos, Top Geek, blogs about everything from House of Cards to Subway. In addition to blogging, he is a public speaker and humorist in child custody, social media, web development and parenting. He is married to one @SuperParentMom, and raising three world changers. For more details on his custody course visit, www.DaddyGotCustody.com/course. Like this post? Make sure you subscribe to this blog.

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